Have just asked this question...?

never the less and no matter what she had been with him before you , and no matter what this person will all ways be in your life so is best you deal with it or you will divorce your future husband , what you need to understand is that he is with you now and don't care about this women or what she does he is going to be your husband and that's it and don't use any excuse to see there son in a different way is not hes fault grown ups mess up SO bad